I saw your complaints.
Listen my question please.

What is the church? what`s that mean?
If you know that, you couldn`t speak like that.
I have a few question for you.
One of them, "Are you born again?"

Frankly speaking,
Most churches which called "the general church" is not church.
When you know the mean "church",
you will be able to understand why they called like that.

- See this word -
To the church of God in Corinth, to those sanctified in Christ Jesus and called to be holy, together with all those everywhere who call on the name of our Lord Jesus Christ--their Lord and ours: (First Corinthians 1:2)